The difference your friends can make.

In all these months of studying vibrational frequency, I've come to a conclusion about people. You can enable or disable the type of people that are in your life. I've come to realize that you cannot keep poor minded people in your circle when you yourself are aspiring to do better. I love everyone who has come and gone from my life in general, but so many had to be put on the chopping block for the sake of my growing need for sanity.

The old saying goes: "You are a reflection of the company you keep." I can definitely see where this is a true statement. The friends I had in high school are so much the same that they were before, but it was I that had changed. I had evolved past their state of thinking. I no longer wanted to take part of their ignorance. So I left for the military and got a whole new perspective on everything.

Upon coming back to Atlanta, I was well adjusted to a new way of thinking and saw that my old friends had still remained exactly as I had left them. I had to leave them behind yet again. Their thinking and my thinking were no longer a match. Different goals equate different ways of thinking, which equals different vibrations. The thought of catching up with any of them disillusions me. It is still even after all of this time, more of the same. I myself had changed drastically.

I am no longer the helpless victim of circumstances. I am now the hero of my own story. I am now the inspiring person who loves his own transformations. I am now the one who will not tolerate or deal with negative people. Yes, I have changed, and thankfully for my own benefit. It looks like this sort of thing happens every decade for me. That some people simply don't make the cut to be bothered with.

This isn't to disrespect anyone. It is a fact of life that must be addressed at a certain point. You have the people you grow up with and then you have the people you can expand with. So if your circle of friends genuinely make you happy, you have found your tribe. If they do not, it is time for a change.

Be that change.