Vibrational reality

I think I am beginning to understand now how this "vibrational reality" is supposed to work. So in essence, the world that you notice is a direct reflection of your own personal belief system. If you believe in self hatred, then your world will be filled with reasons not to like yourself. If you believe in self glory, then your world will be filled with reasons as to what makes you great. Whether or not we want to acknowledge it, our parents play a large role in our vibrational reality. Or at the very least, the beginning of our reality.

The very core concept of whatever they teach us, starts off what we believe in. As a result, the world will reflect what we think from an early age. But we are always checking in with what they think in order to see what is approved. That in itself is teaching us that love and joy are conditional. It is in this need for their acceptance, that we are taught to lose what we feel for what they do. How the parent thinks and reacts is what we then go off of for a long long time.

A child's past is what ends up determining that person's future. It is either an inspiration for what better things the child can go get, or a hole that the child will always need to fill. The need to succeed is often a mask for a void of love never given without condition. The need to be accepted by others is often the same overlooked conditional love the parent didn't give. If our parents tortured us, we end up torturing ourselves, unless we recognize this flaw and overcome it, we will be haunted.

It all makes sense to me now. Even down to what my sisters have gone through, it is all relative to overcoming the past. Pain is the teacher that either binds you, or makes you better to overcome anything else.

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