6/17/17

Today I was musing through subjects as I often do, and came across one that hit home on so many levels. Here's a catchy question: Why are there so many manipulative females? Oh now I'm not saying that there aren't manipulative men, I've seen quite a few of those. But what I am noticing within this lifespan, is that the ratio of manipulative females is far higher. Like, it's not enough to already have to live in a world filled with subjective mental programming, but now here some of these people come along who refuse to face themselves and their "tactics".

From my own mother doing a much weaker version of it, to my sisters doing their own version of it, to coworkers across the spectrum, I have noticed there are a lot of unhappy females who use manipulation. What I don't get, is that a lot of them will do almost whatever it takes to wear down their "target" to the point of exhaustion. At the end of their lives, you have a single female who ends up very much alone. No real friends, and family will have anything to do with her because of her own deeds.

When my mother asked me "Why don't you ever want to come over?" I had responded, "Because you and I both know you have made dealing with you almost unbearable, because you are judgmental to a fault." She was taken aback and realized that everything her daughters were telling her for years was the absolute truth when her son finally said it.

To an extent, I can understand the origin of the fear that pushes some people to do this. But what I don't get is choosing to attempt to manipulate a person against your own conscious, to achieve what you want. Because in the end, every single manipulator ends up very much alone in the karma of their own foolish choices. Death has absolutely no mercy, so how you chose to live will be reflected in how you die.

Q